A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the party, she made promises that she would never hurt me again and said that she loved me and always had. It took her less than a week to break them, and now she wont talk to me, or even look me in the eye. She's also my best friend, and I miss her so much. I dont know what to do, I want my best friend back, yet I still upset about what she did to me. She really hurt me as I'd belived that she loved me. Up until the day she said shed never hurt me again, she'd been in the closet, and she came out that very week. All I want to know is do you think she really loves me? I know what she did to me was bad, and I dont want to go back to being her girlfriend, she doesnt deserve it, but I want my best friend back, it hurts so much that she wont talk to me or look me in the eye, and I really miss her. What do you think I should do?
View related questions:
best friend, broke up, drunk, sex with another Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): tats wat happened to one of my x best friend..her gf cheated on her..
ok i think tat u should talk to her..
ask her y she's ignorin u? and if she doesnt want to
be ur gf ask her to at least b ur friend
but if she is willin to only b friends wit u
dont go bak out wit her
move on.while keepin a friendship
if she doesnt want to b friends
u have many other ppl
A
reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Try again one more time and if it didn't work out, just move on. It does hurt, but it will all get better in time. Just be positive and eventually you'll find your other significant out here.
...............................
|
