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Is she thinking of someone else or can I just not satisfy her?

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Question - (27 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

After a nice day with my girfriend we where making out, I try to go down on her then she said don't do it if you don't want to, I said don't say anything and she said it again, so I'm thinking I don't satisfy her or her mind is on someone else. What do you think?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

She is shy. Probably afraid of what she looks like down there, or that you dont like her smell or taste.

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A female reader, Accountable United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2009):

Accountable agony auntHow long have you been together? She might just not feel comfortable with that. Or she could be insecure about it - whether you really enjoy doing that, or are just doing it because you feel obligated to. I don't think her mind is on anything else, I imagine she's just a bit nervous of what you're thinking about her. Just ask her about it, and emphasise that you do want to do it for her (providing you really do!).

Good luck :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

All she meant was literally "don't do it if you don't want to"! She's probably shy or insecure and needs you to make her feel beautiful and special! Don't give up! Her mind isn't on anyone else, trust her!!!

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A female reader, LadyCorsair United States +, writes (27 November 2009):

LadyCorsair agony auntHave you been down on her before and did she seem to enjoy it? Some girls just don't like their guy down there. Try talking to her and finding out what she does like. If she just says "I dunno", try telling her what you like, and hopefully she'll respond

good luck

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