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writes: Hello,I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he completely ignores me, its unreal! I feel like I am always making the first move. I know I haven't really explained the situation well, but can anyone give me any suggestions on his behaviour, or what he would do if he did like me?Thanks xx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Blod +, writes (28 November 2009):
I think he's shy. He doesn't seem to know where he stands with you. I reckon he's not really sure how to behave around you as he doesn't know how you'd react to him or what you're thinking. So it's easier for him to just ignore you than to risk any embarrassment in case you reject him or something. But eye contact is a good sign, and if he wasn't nervous when you're around then he'd find it easier to talk to you.
So if you want him to approach you start sending out the signals. Flirt subtly or, if you're confident enough, tell him how you feel.
Good Luck. X
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reader, Miguel-Montana +, writes (28 November 2009):
the only thing that comes to mind is ur giving out the wrong signals and dont realize it or the guy likes u alot and doesnt want to like u and tries to aviod it by pushing u away from him. i cant think of anything else but i hope this helps =)
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