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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've always had very intense sexual fantasies about being with more than one man at a time (a threesome)... I think about it whenever I masturbate or have sex, it's the only thing that can push me over the edge into orgasm.Unfortunately in my real life I have not been able to find any men who are willing. I want them to be straight men, and to be attractive, and usually straight guys aren't willing to do these sorts of things like straight women will. My fantasies are getting more and more intense lately, and I really want to make it a reality but I feel lost. I am an attractive, young woman, but I'm starting to think that my dreams may never come true... unless I pay for it. Unfortunately I cannot figure out how to do that, most agencies seem to be for gay men, not straight women, and like I already said, I don't want to sleep with a gay man, it's just not the same!What do I do?P.s. I am currently single, but I do have sex regularly so this isn't just out of sexual frustration, I just really want to experience this fantasy, and am saddened that I can't find a way!
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reader, mr motivator  +, writes (28 November 2009):
Remember.... as good as fantasies are... some fantasies should be left as just a dream
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): You need to date a bi-guy...
Now before you automatically think no..your post says "straight guys," that's the thing a lot of straight guys don't want to be anywhere near another guy when having sex.
Bi-Men are not gay men, the ones I know are like 90% straight, they don't look gay, or act gay, you'd never they weren't straight unless they told you (you'd never know they'd be into guys that way). You'd be surprised how many guys you know, who are "straight" are actually bi.
Now..they don't want to date men, they don't want relationships with men, they don't want candle dinners with men, 90% of time they want sex with women.
They ONLY have relationships with women. The ones I know, their friends/fam don't know they're bi.
And truthfully most of the time when they're with another guy, a chick is involved (MMF).
It's just that occasional thing they're open minded to and most of these guys when they are with a chick they are committed, to them cheating is a man or a woman.
And they wouldn't want a 3-some all the time, but to change things up now and then they'd probably be open to it.
They're masculine, etc. The only thing I really notice a difference in them from straight guys, is the communication, they communicate a lot better.
These bi-guys are the kind of guys that want to get married, have kids, the whole 9, but just open minded in bed - they'd never leave for another man, it's not emotional to them, just physical.
I think you're open minded enough to consider dating a guy like this.
I was involved with someone who was, but due to my morals/traditional background, I didn't want him to feel limited
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): Excuse me, many straight women will not do "those things", but I guess you have a point. Men suffer from too much homophobia. But that should still be alright with you, right? You getting all the attention and never feeling like the 3rd wheel?
Go out on town and hook up with a couple of hot guys when the opportunity offers itself. Go prepared that maybe tonight you'll get lucky, so that the opportunity isnt there on the day you forgot to shave your armpits.
Or find a couple of really horny friends.
Personally I've been offered 3-somes many times, I just never foun dit with the right people, so it's good that you have standards, but that might make it more difficult. The men I was offered into a threesome with (2 guys) were straight and not inot eachother, but the prospect of getting me to bed, even if they had to share, was all they needed to be willing. Both times I've had 2-guy 3-some offered, I didnt find both men attractive enough, and the one time I was pulled into a 3-some 2-girls, the other girl was a friend of mine and it felt too weird.
Neither way, the opportunities are most likely there, you just gotta be open for taking them when they arrive, maybe not be too picky (after all it's their dicks and qulities in bed that matter, not their faces) and be prepared!
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reader, MsFrankie +, writes (27 November 2009):
 It's pretty easy! There's are about a million 'adult dating' i.e. swingers websites - just go on and advertise yourself - try this http://www.adultmatchdoctor.com/forums-67-0-1.aspx
Should be easy peasy... in theory.
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reader, LadyCorsair  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 Put an ad in your local paper... Most have a xrated connections section, and you can make your requests for straight men quite clear!
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