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writes: im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came inside me even tho he knows that i dont allow that ever and then just left. i havent heard from him. what do i do now? please help. thank u. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): go see a doctor
be sure u tell them xactly wat happened
if he can juz have sex wit u
and leave
its obvious u arent the first
so he might of caught something
dont ever ever!! go into contact wit some1 who wants u for
ur body..u also shouldnt b doin tat unless u really love tat person.not to be all lecturin u..
be careful
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reader, mr motivator  +, writes (28 November 2009):
I some senses that could be perceived as sexual assault, he did something you didnt want him to do
I think its fair to say you wont be seeing him again
I wont hand his details over to the police and say well clear in future
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Hi. This man isnt any good for you sweetheart. Please dont try and contact him! Keep well away from him. You are under age to be having sex and he knows that. Hes broken the law. Tell youre parents and get checked incase you are pregnant or have caught a disease from him.
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reader, Dazed~Confused  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 First you need to go see a doctor. Pregnancy aside you are at risk for a having contracted STIs/STDs.
I am willing to bet that you weren't the only woman he was sleeping with and he probably didn't use protection with the others either.
The way he treated you was definitely disrespectful and it was all about power. He "dominated" you and then walked away, effectively getting the last word. He knows what he did was wrong, and he used you. The fact that he hasn't contacted you speaks volumes.
It's your decision whether or not to press charges, but I hope that you have nothing more to do with him. It would not surprise me if at some point he tries to contact you again. This is your chance to have the last word and don't even bother answering him. He wants to demean and elicit a response from you. The less you give him the better.
Walk away and stay away from that scum.
Have you ever wondered what he was doing with a 16 year old and not women his own age? Most men his age know better, the chance of being charged with statutory rape alone would have kept most of them away. He is looking for young women whom he can manipulate and control.
You deserve better. He is actually doing you a favour by not contacting you.
So, see the doctor, make sure you are healthy.
Most of all I hope that you are ok.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): My wife was with a guy like this before me. First couple times he was gentle, then he turned bad on her. Holding her down, pounding her hard even though she asked him to stop, making her swallow, cumming on her face when she said no, and so on. Starting calling her slut, whore, etc. Guys like this are usually obsessed with porn and are trying to act out the movies they watch. Stay away...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): He came inside you? Well, where does he normally cum? Outside, if so, thats fine, or do you not want him to ejaculate. If not, then you shouldnt be having sex.
he sounds like a fucking women beater.
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reader, ffogalilly  +, writes (28 November 2009):
You're too young to be with someone that age, it sounds like he took what he wanted from you and left, what you have described is RAPE! Don't love this guy because he is not worth it, in the United States he has committed a crime of sexual assault, and statutory rape which means a 26 year old MAN does not date a 16 year old GIRL.. You need to go tell your parents right away, and get to a doctor, you could be pregnant from him releasing inside of you, why didn't you get on birth control when you became sexually active with this guy? You need to smarten up quickly, this man took advantage of you, he sounds like the type that preys on teenage girls, and I bet this isn't the first time he has done this, you need to turn him in and forget about him, this man isn't worth your time.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (27 November 2009):
 depending on one's definition, this could even be considered rape. I would avoid him. He has a side of him that is dangerous, and clearly apathetic to your interests and disrespecful to your body.
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reader, tabassco +, writes (27 November 2009):
if u did not consent and he phisicaly hurt u or kept going when u said no or stop and is not ansering your phone calls u call the police and fiel rap charges dosent matter and if u can or did take pictures of the brusis and show to the poilce.
and give me his name so i can beat th hell outa him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): You are underage and it is very much illegal for a guy of his age to have sex with sex with a girl of your sex. HE CAN AND SHOULD GO TO JAIL. And above all, since he cummed inside you you are at a very high risk of getting pregnant. I would say you need to talk to your family and go and see a doctor. You did not take any pill so please talk to you parents. You may get pregnant. Since he does not care and never call, its for your own good to leave him.
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