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I would like to be together with him but how can I make this a reality?

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Question - (27 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2009)
A female Czech Republic age 51-59, anonymous writes:

The man i dated last year although he made clear that he wasn't interested for a committed relationship, this year he calls me sometimes to go out together. I usually accept to go out with him although i have told him in the past that i would like a more committed relationship. Sometimes i think that it would be better to keep him just as friend. Othertimes i think that it would be better to be with him more closely. I don't know which is the best approach. I would like to be together with him but how can i make this a reality? Should i be more unapproachable to him or i can tell him my real feelings? I don't want to lose him i just want to bring him closer to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009):

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I read your answear and i would like to ask you as you are talking from experience: do you think that it isn't possible to be with him so it would be better to keep him as a friend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009):

your being a total obsessive women

trust me if he was interested in you even half as much as you want him he would have taken you off the market asap cause he wouldnt want some other guy to steal you away from him but instead hes trying to keep you as his lil booty call and satying the no lables thing so hes still technically avaliable to date anyone better that comes along

trust me im a player that plays the same game

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