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anonymous
writes:I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when he's there, so I know it's true. He loves her, but he likes me. It's so frustrating, because I know this girl is only playing him. She has a boyfriend who she loves, she won't ever be interested in my friend anyway, she's admitted it. I want to tell him what she said so he'll get over her, but it'll just make him sad, and I'll sound horrible. Help! What should I do? Should I just be the really good friend until he gets over her? Or should I just leave it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): because she has a bf already and she's probably not planning on having interest in other guys. If I were you I'll just leave it, he need to hear that from her not you.
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reader, Cute  +, writes (28 November 2009):
Try and get a mutual friend to tell him about this other girl's actual intentions. Don't you think he'll be hurt more by knowing that that girl was playing with him and knew it but didn't tell.... Just let him know the truth and then wait for him to recover and come back to you. I strongly feel that you shouldn't leave him.
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Cute
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