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writes:Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend and just about a week ago I "touched" her down there for the first time and was just kinda lightly stroking my fingers up and down the outside of her pants because with the boundaries that she set im not allowed to go inside her pants (yet) but yeah I was just kinda lightly moving my fingers up and down and she wants me to do it again the next time we get a chance. That was the first time I've ever touched a girl down there in my life and I wasn't really sure on what to do. So my question is... Can someone tell me what I could/can do to give my girl the most pleasure possible without going inside her pants? like techniques and hand movements etc... Reply to this Question
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reader, Asheeton +, writes (27 November 2009):
Asheeton is verified as being by the original poster of the question "Sheez, stop focusing on getting into her pants. What about you, dont YOU have any boundaries? No respect for yourself?" yeah, i actually do have boundaries set but theres not really many i have to set. and I do respect myself a lot. and thx for the tip
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): You deserve advice, not criticism, so here goes...Do what you are doing, she likes it. Don't be in a rush, be gentle and take your time. She is sensitive down there, especially as she isn't used to being pleasured by rougher male fingers.I would start by not moving at all, actually; just rest your hand on her mound, let her feel the warmth of your hand and want more.Then press gently but firmly on her pussy, still not moving - she may be moving by now!If she shows signs of wanting you to take it further, go slowly. Rub her over her knickers with your middle finger, up and down over her lips and towards her clit.Speaking of lips, you will be kissing her all the time, won't you? And talking nicely to her?Her increasing movements will tell you when it is time to go further. As she starts to squirm, increase the speed and pressure of your rubbing, paying more attention to her clit now.If you have got her mood right, she will hardly notice that you have moved her knickers to one side and are directly stimulating her pussy, clit as well.Don't bother trying to enter her pussy with her fingers just yet - it won't do a lot for her and she could realise that you've sneaked into her knickers!Just continue fingering her inner lips,m up and down, and really attend to her clit; that's what gets her off.With luck, she will cum lots and want you to do it again and again!Good luck, and report back, please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): "because with the boundaries that she set im not allowed to go inside her pants (yet)"
Sheez, stop focusing on getting into her pants. What about you, dont YOU have any boundaries? No respect for yourself?
As for pleasing her, you gotta ask her if she liked what you did, and appears she did, so just continue and check with her for guidance. Also pay attention to her sounds and facial expressions, it'll show if she likes what you do.
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reader, mitten82 +, writes (27 November 2009):
I lick my gf on the neck and on her stomach area and also rub her back. my gf is really into licking. though I go into my gf's pants every chance I get, we still love to just cuddle and lick another ...say it's weird or whatever. I do whatever I can to keep things fun
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