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writes:Hey guys, i'v been dateing my girlfriend for about 4-5 weeks. She seems like a really nice girl and she really looks like she loves me.She is always so sweet to me, and says stuff like "your the best boyfriend i ever had" and "your everything i wanted in a guy and your perfect".Of course i say stuff back to her like you were the best girlfriend i ever had and ect.Basically, she seems like the perfect girl for me. Shes trustworthy, she looks like she really loves me, and she acts like im her one and only.I love her and i want to beleive this is all right. But i'v seen to manny bad things gone wrong with relationships in my life, i'd say iv had about 16 girlfriends so far in about a 3 year base.Is this the real deal? or do you think this is just a tease or something that eventually will break apart and not last? please tell me your opinions.another question. she asked me if i loved or was in-love with her.i told her i was in-love with her but it depends on her definition of the words. she said i don't know what are your definitions? i said love is when you really care and cheerish somone. and in-love is when you are deeply attached to a person and only want the best for them. and to be with them for a long time.what do you think about this?? Reply to this Question
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reader, mitten82 +, writes (27 November 2009):
if she is asking you if you love her or are in-love with her, that sounds a little immature. puppy love leaves people in that situation. love is difficult as it is and asking someone that is just too much. my ex gf used to ask me 'do you love me or are you in-love with the idea of loving me' ...ugh. it's just as hard to answer that as any other question over love.
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (27 November 2009):
Nobody here can possibly know if it's real. Sounds to me like you're asking an obvious question here. She really likes you, you really like her. Stop being so insecure and just let it be. Don't let previous experiences control you.
Also, asking her to define the word love... not so cool. That's the kind of thing that is going to make her insecure.
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