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How do I move to the next step with him?

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Question - (16 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Apologies, this is going to be long.

I've met this guy, all we've done is kissed, but we're not going out. There are things he has said that makes me think he wants more than a fling, but at the same time i don't really know where I stand.

For example, we were talking about ex's, and when he said why was I not going out with anyone, met anyone in college, I said no one was interested, thats all. His reply was 'well I hope they don't start now, because I really don't want to have to go back to college.' Another time he said 'so when are we going to go on a date?' but nothing more has really been mentioned. Any insight on these would help, i.e. how you read into it?

I can't introduce him to anyone because I don't know what/who I would introduce him as. I need to understand what 'we' are, but how can I ask this without scaring him off?

Any other advice would be great, thank you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you (: Its good to have a guys opinion on this, so thanks again!

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A male reader, iluver United States +, writes (17 May 2009):

he definantly wants more. if you really want to know what he wants or how he sees you , you should just ask. itll be a lot easier for both of you. believe me im a guy, guys need it simple. : )

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