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writes:I want to break up with my boyfriend i still love him with all my heart but our relationship has been falling apart he says he doesnt want to leave me but i dont understand how is it that he loves me sometimes he says things to me that hurts me or in a fight i end up with the blame, i dont know if i should leave him or stay with him i love him but i dont know if he's worth it. Reply to this Question
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reader, elephant159 +, writes (16 May 2009):
 I think that any guy who puts you down a lot is deffenetly not worth it. he may say he loves you but it seems to me that he has a personal issue. If he really loves you then he would be more careful about what he says. I would say get rid of him and when he changes then consider taking him bak.
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reader, Regina80 +, writes (16 May 2009):
He may love you but it clear that he himself has issues (personal ones). You have to decide whether you can help him (judging by your age not). If not he needds to get help. You deserve better than what he is giving you at the moment. If things don't change, ask him to comeback when he has sorted out his issues. You are too young to be dragged down by this kind of guy!!
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reader, mercedes_18 +, writes (16 May 2009):
i think if the things he says to you are affecting your self esteem, its not worth you suffering the verbal abuse. you and your boyfriend should sit down and have a conversation about this and see can you two work through the problems, if he is not willing then he is not really dedicated to the relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I don't see that someone who is in truely in love would say that the person they're in love with is not worth it. You haven't said anythign that makes your relationship seem out of the ordinary. People do say things when thy're mad that hurt others. Couples do have arguements and hurt each other and try to blame each other. Couples do it, kids do it, friends do it, siblings do it.. If you REALLY love him, then why would he not be worth it? I think he himself would be very hurt at hearing you say that.
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