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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi well i've been with my gf for 1 year in 2 month. Lately are relationship been having problems. We are actually in long distance relationship we live like 6hr away from each other so we rarely see each other lately. She always talks about how much she loves me, However every time she makes a promise she doesn't keep it.She has about a week left of school till she comes home but some reason the closer the date comes the more irritated she gets at me.Last night i text her was talking to her she was seem pretty cool. Then she told me she going out with her friend and probably not be home till like 6am or something and that's fine. Then I asked her if she would text me when she got back to her dorm. Then she got all mad and start yelling at me saying I'm trying to control her, Really i just wanted make sure she got home safe that's all. The fight lasted about 15 min then she calmed down and she promised me she would text me when she got home. Long story short she didn't text me go figure.lately every time she say she going to call or text me she never does. I'm afraid she losing interested in me or something.We are pretty good at open communication. I talk to her about how feel like she doesn't want me around then she will be like oh i want you around i love you. and probably say something that i shouldn't have such low self esteem. some where in that conversation.Then next day she will just ditch me again I'm just little confused.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (17 May 2009):
 Prepare for the worst....hope for the best.
Hate to say it, but I am living proof that LDRs do rarely if ever work. Sorry to be blunt, but I have to say it sounds like her year at college has allowed her to expand her horizons. Perhaps at the expense of your relationship.
Sadly these things happen, and its a casualty of maintaining a LDR. The advice about not jumping to conclusions is correct. I would add however, young man that you need to trust your gut. If that turns out to be the case, take heart in knowing that you aren't the first, nor will you be the last to experience it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): In a week she will be home and you can sort it all out face to face. Try not to jump to conclusions until then. No doubt there have been end of the year parties and she is spending time saying goodbye to friends.
See how it is when she gets home. Try to rekindle what you had before she left!
Good Luck! Have A Great Summer!
Britt
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