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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im not totally sure of my sexuality. I'm a real girly girl, absolutly love fashion and indie music scene. I have the most amazing boyfriend he's gorgeous and girls drool over him, he's absolutely crazy over me and i couldn't ask for anything more! We've been together nearly a year now. The thing is I think i am Bi curious. There's only a few girls i have ever found really attractive and thought i wouldn't say no! At a drunken party once, a really good looking girl came onto me, i was flattered and we kissed most of the night, it seemed different from kissing a boy, and it was more exciting. The few girls i have thought about in this way are really attractive, great fashion sense but are straight, If i knew they were bi or gay i would definitely experiment with them. All lesbians or bisexuals seem to be really masculine and butch, which i am definitely not attracted to in the slightest. I am embarrassed by my feelings and don't feel normal, i dont like to admit it to myself but i think im confused. When im with my boyfriend i don't think about other girls or feel confused about my sexuality i feel straight! But then if i watch something on tv like e4 skins, the lesbian story between naomi and emily, i can relate to it and then it gets me all confused! what do you think?
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reader, dukes480  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 I would have to say but even if ur not sure about that the only sesutation to that is U R INFACT BI CURIOUS
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 I think your feelings are very normal. You might be straight with bi-sexual tendencies, you might be on the bi-sexual range where you are physically attracted to one gender, and emotionally attracted to the other gender, or fully bi depending on what and who you are drawn too.
I did a radio interview with a woman who is bi, on the topic of bisexual orientations. You can listen to it for free and download it at
http://www.franktalks.com/radio
Just look for the interview with Nancy LeClerc
It also covers alternative relationship choices for bisexual people who might not be able to manage in monogamous relationships.
Hope this helps.
-Frank Kermit
www.franktalks.com/radio
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