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writes:is this too soon??im 18 chatted to a guy from the net for over two months to be honest he has always chased me and fancied me more then i did to him..but then i decdied we should meet.first time we met i had my first kiss with him and he told me he loves me..he siad love me to me before and i always use to say dont say it because you honestly can't..don't know eachother much. but he said before i ddint mean it but i do now. we're a couple now .its been over a week we#ve met twice talk eevryday ont he phone and via texts and he always says love u and shows it.tells me his feelings etc.just is it possible to be in love this soon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionp.s he's 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i asked him what does love mean to him-to define it and the response he gave did sound like true love
he has mentioned sex saying doesn't want it now but in the future, but to be honest i love him as a person and like him...but i don't love him and this helps me say no to sex with him.
but thanks its true just going to take my time and see how it goes :)xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Trust your instincts here. I think it's entirely possible for you to "fall in love" with some one quite quickly, but you need to remember that sometimes those feelings get confused with lust and excitement. Love, the good kind at least, does take time to develop.
It does seem to me that he is pushing you a little, that he is charging ahead. If you don't feel comfortable with anything, stop it immediately. You have only known him in person for a week, so play it safe. You might not be able to think of him that way, but there are psychopaths out there, or, more commonly, really horny and desperate men :)
Just be careful, take it slow. If he loves you like he says, he wont mind you being absolutely certain about things before you charge ahead. He wont push you for sex, or push you to say I love you. Good luck and take care!
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