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*onigirl
writes:I have a big problem. My ex (who I dated 6 years ago.) came back into my life as friends. And he told me he loves me. I don't feel the same way and I've told him. But he doesnt under stand that I don't want to be with him like that. Infact I don't want to be with any guy like that. I'm focus on moving out for college and thats all i want. How can i get him to understand what I want because I've been as clear as I can ever be?
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reader, Tonigirl +, writes (16 April 2010):
Tonigirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well I did what ya'll said. He kicked me out of his life. He never wats to see me again. Oh well I thinks it's for the best anyway. Thanks for your help.
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reader, Prophet7 +, writes (16 May 2009):
Tell him the truth ;-). If he keeps trying to rekindle your past relationship it will push you away. Tell him that having a relationship is not your focus and your education is. Tell him that you love and value your friendship and give him time to adjust because it will not be easy for him at first. Be patient he will adjust or move on and go NC. Hope my advice helps you and your friend. God bless...Prophet7
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reader, bubblegum104 +, writes (16 May 2009):
go to the park stare him in the eyes and tell him that u do not like him like that and make sure he understands this might be uncomfertible r u and him but its better to do it now before u lead him on to far :)
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