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anonymous
writes:i met a guy after a night out randomly on the street in town when every one pours out from the clubs. He was very goodlooking and smart - not some tipsy guy. we exchanged numbers and now, a few days on, he wants to meet up for a drink. i want to go because i don't like to miss any opertunities in life.but should i go? at the end of the day, he is an absolute stranger!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (17 May 2009):
 So he doesn't feel too much of a stranger, why not have a good chat on the phone. I don't mean your life stories, I mean "How's your week going?" "What have you been doing" and stuff like that. This way you get an idea of the things he likes and his everyday routine etc. You will get some idea how his job/course is going. Fiona.
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reader, TaoTang  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 Just go for it, you got nothing to loseIf you dont like him, just dont meet him again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): yes just go for it, i assume your going to follow the safety rules i.e meet in public place etc... you never know he could turn out to be the love of your life.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (17 May 2009):
Go for it, as you say you only live once.
Actually most guys I met, I met in a club on a dance-floor, or in a pub. So I guess in some cases that's not much different.
I assume any friend you were with that night, thinks you should go for it?
Or if you are concerned, why not meet for coffee at Starbucks/costas? You are still meeting up but some people think meeting in the day is better somehow.
Good luck and tell us how you get on.
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reader, Loral. +, writes (16 May 2009):
 Meet him, but go with a friend. Or, have a friend nearby. Try to go somewhere not too quiet, just in case :)
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