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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and three months. I love him, a lot. He claims he loves me, and he was always so sweet and just felt like I could talk to him about anything. But, we had sex after being together for about six months. After we did, everything was fine and i felt a lot closer to him. Now, however, he's always cocky and never wants to go anywhere with me. UNLESS we're going to have sex. I love him, but i really don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): He used you, he only wants sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): honey i suggest leave this boy and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I'd suggest that you think about what you want and need in a relationship, and compare that ideal to what's actually going on.
You have some very powerful emotions invested in this relationship -- having had it go on so long when you're so young, and he being your first(?). Unfortunately if he's in the 13-15 age range too, he's probably not mature enough to give you the emotional connection you deserve. In other words, it's unlikely he's going to start to behave better toward you.
You should certainly tell him what you're feeling. And I would strongly suggest that there be no more sex as long as he's behaving that way. He'll either change, or the relationship will end. Either way you'll be better off.
Good luck!
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