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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i've never thought about giving my boyfriend a blow job before until last night he asked me to give him one. i had no idea what to do.any tips on how to give a good blow job??thanks xxx
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 May 2009):
Perhaps have him sit back comfortably in a chair or on the couch and position between his parted legs. Begin by alternately stroking the shaft and gently massaging his balls until he is very erect. You are "teasing" him to start with, then grasp his erection and simply kiss the tip a few times while slowly stroking the shaft.
Begin repeatedly licking from about halfway down the shaft to the head of his penis, pausing a few times to strongly kiss and suck the tip. Swirl the tip (glans) with your tongue and gradually begin inserting deeper and deeper into your mouth while you suck. It should be similar to french-kissing, very wet and passionate.
As "Angeldust" recommends, keep your teeth off the shaft and use a sucking motion as you insert to the max that is comfortable for you. Occasionally massage his scrotum as you suck him off. You might also pause briefly to lick his balls.
If you are prepared, you can allow him to release into your mouth, or back-off and finish with a hand job instead. Most women seem to consider semen to be rather bitter or salty, or both, but many love it. If his diet is fairly high in fruits and fruit juices, his cum may be quite tasty. Sperm is harmless and very nutritious for you as long as he is healthy and disease-free.
A full oral release is the most intense orgasm for a man, in my opinion. The key is to continue sucking throughout the ejaculation. With some practice, a girl can learn to take the cum load straight down with lesser taste. Big loads may require swallowing from the first squirt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Crave it when you see it, savour the sight of it, its gorgeous hardness and the anticipation of what it'll taste and feel like. The rest will come naturally, but please do bear in mind that it's the most sensitive, vulnerable part of his anatomy, so very, very gentle lip and tongue worship will be far preferable to vigorous munching while you're stlll figuring it out. I do hope this isn't too explicit, and I apologise if it is. You'll work it out for yourself.
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reader, Blondy +, writes (16 May 2009):
Focus on the head. Lick and suck and swirl your tounge around the head and he will love it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Follow the advice of the previous poster and also let him direct you. With practice you will learn what he likes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Well i like to lick the tip a little then start sucking starting slow then speed up i also swallow the cum i like the taste! But thats up to you x
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