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Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up

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Question - (16 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *Kins writes:

I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to any! So am worried that I may have scared him off now! lol. I don't usually get PMS and this is worrying me that he will think that I'm always like this for no reason.

How can I let him know that everything I said this morning was not my normal self. As he is not replying or answering his phone now. And i dont want to seem like a crazy woman.

Basically in the messages I said that I was feeling down, that I was worried that it wont last, that I wanted to take it slower, that I dont wanna get hurt, all sorts about what my ex did etc etc. and then iv sent a msg saying how im over reacting, im sorry, etc, and then even more messages trying to explain myself!!!! I feel like such a plonker at the minute now i have my normal head back on.

He lives an hour away so I cant just turn up at his door, which I think might make me looked obsessed too. I dont know what to do! lol

I know it's only been two weeks! But this guy is great!

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2009):

pebble agony auntI don't think telling him you were pmsing is going to help. He is a guy after all, he's not gonna want to hear that after only two weeks.

I think the best thing to do is wait for him to contact you. Don't send him any more texts. If you've apologised and tried to explain then that's the best you can do. Now the ball is in his court. If he doesn't get back to you then just accept you made a mistake sending all those texts and move on.

But please don't continue texting him this way.

Good luck x

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A female reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (16 May 2009):

we-are-nowhere agony auntcool it off for a day or sth or atlest untill he calls you and simply explain that you were PMSING ... i think he will understand

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