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writes:ok well my wife is pregnent and lately the sex (when we do have it) well, it has been like great is this normal i mean... Reply to this Question
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reader, MissEhm  +, writes (18 May 2009):
well im myy experience yes
when i was pregnant the sex was amazing and my boyfriend
totally agreed dont no what i done different tho
but when women are pregnant sometimes they dont want it and sometimes they cant get enough. So if i were a guy and i was having amazing sex i wouldnt be complaining ;)
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reader, pure shade 5 +, writes (16 May 2009):
pure shade 5 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the help
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reader, daletom +, writes (16 May 2009):
"Make it more enjoyable for her?"? Is she complaining about anything?
First, get her doctor to tell her that sex is OK, and it's almost impossible for you to hurt the baby while having normal sex. Then explore together.
Let her get on top and control depth and angle of insertion if she's concerned. Her breasts may be slightly tender, so be gentle. The nipples may be more sensitive - perhaps to the point that they can't take intense stimulation for very long.
Your lovemaking may become, on average, more gentle but more intense as the pregnancy progresses. Make sure she KNOWS that you love her! And that you'll be there for her and your baby.
In the later months she won't have as much energy for sex (or anything else) so the active, physically demanding stuff won't appeal to her. Be careful about pressure on her belly - it'll be uncomfortable to her. She may be more comfortable being on top, or in the "spoons" position.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): totally, totally normal. those hormones are in overdrive , just relax and enjoy.
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reader, pure shade 5 +, writes (16 May 2009):
pure shade 5 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys i mean i was just wondering i mean she is still early in her pregncy only 9weeks pregnent so thx's hey u got any tips on how to try to make sex more enjoiable for her?...
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reader, daletom +, writes (16 May 2009):
When my wife was pregnant - especially the first 6 - 7 months - she wanted more sex, and was more responsive, and it was generally "better sex" than when she wasn't pregnant. Check with her doctor, but in most cases there is no medical reason to eliminate, reduce, or change your normal sexual activities during pregnancy - right up to the point where she starts labor. (OK, in the later stages she won't have as much energy, and some positions and other activities become physically difficult or impossible.)
I have heard that some women are just the opposite.
Many pregnant women are very self-conscious about their bodies. In fact, MANY men find a pregnant lady especially attractive and a sexual turn-on. Make sure she knows that you love her and find her attractive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Sure, it happens. She's got all kinds of hormones happening. Just be sensitive to her moods, because they can swing quickly. There will be times when she has no interest in sex, either. So enjoy it when she is into it.
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