A
female
age
36-40,
*eavenly_love
writes:Well im an lesbian, and i have given an lady professor some roses. My friend actually did, stating its from me. The professor wanted to see me and i went inside. She started asking me my name and nationality, etc...she then said i could have gone up to her and at least said hi and now that we know each other we can speak with each other any time. She accepted the roses and gave me the open door. Now i would like to know, since she accepted the roses and said that to me, does that mean she interested. If she wasn't interested, she could have said that she not like that. What do you think? Any feedback.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 May 2009):
 I think it is just fundamentally a BAD idea to be dating college staff if you are a student. I think she may have just handled the situation professionally by identifying the student with the crush and not pursuing the issue of a relationship. She may not have mentioned the possibility of a relationship or not because it maybe embarrassing for her to do so. Not because of this being a lesbian relationship, but the whole idea of any student having a crush maybe something she doesn't know how to respond to. I was polite but distance to one male student who used to hang back after my class at University. It seemed obvious he had romantic ideas but I wouldn't have pursued him as I was his lecturer and I think the whole idea is unprofessional. I was nevertheless friendly to him but kept the conversation on course matters, even when he tried to get around to asking for a date.
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