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writes:Hi, im a 15 year old male, and i am confused about my sexuality, i have always been aroused and have always fancied girls and i prefer to masturbate to women but the thing is i cant climax very well when i think about women or watch lesbian porn. one day i was masturbating to lesbian porn and there was a gay porn ad on the side of the website and i glanced at it whilst masturbating and i had the best climax of my life, this then got me worried so i veiwed gay porn and got a bit aroused, which has lead me to believe that i am bi-sexual, but the thing is, is that i read on a website that if someone can only climax to thoughst or videos involving a man then this means you are gay. im so confused there are so many thoughts in my head right now, i sometimes think that i must be gay and that im only aroused by women because i think its different or something like that, you know like a fetish? if you get what im on about,i have had girlfriends in the past and have always got aroused when they sit on my lap and stuff.i am really confused, any ideas to whats happening?why can i only climax to gay thoughts?does this mean im gay?
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reader, chimpala  +, writes (27 May 2009):
hey you are so young, only 15 yrs old ( Im 16) it doesn't mean you must be a gay when you do this. many boys at this age even love touching others organs or ass. they didn't grow into gays then. and if you are really a gay , it doesn't matter too much! just let it be . be what you should be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): chill out bebe, what turns different people on can be different for each and everyone of us. This does not label who we are. Some people get turned on by shoes and even feet. Visually lesbian porn didn't overly do it for you and gay porn did. I have heard stories of young men your age having masturbating competitions none of them are gay but all happily did this together when young.Just enjoy where you at at right now and forget the labels.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (16 May 2009):
 hey their hun just relax dont get stressed over this try and think about it calmly. and no matter the outcome of your situation it isnt wrong to be gay bi sexual or straight. well you could be bi sexual that is a possibility. but think about it this way if a girl watches lesbain porn doesnt mean to say shes a lesbian nor does that apply to you. perhaps the out of ordinary turns you on perhaps you have fantasies but dont have the actual need to be with a man. i know someone who was worried she was a lesbian and it turned out she wasnt a lesbain at all just she liked the different fantasies about women it was different and exciting. she loves being with men but she doesnt want to be with a woman she just loves th e thought so perhaps you just like the thought but not the doing. porn can lead people a stray. and can give them wrong impressions of themselves as i said just because i watch lesbian porn doesnt mean i am a lesbain although i dont watch porn nor am i lesbian im giving a reference from my friend point of view. she says its a fantasie for her something different perhaps forbidden which makes it more exciting and you feel its wrong which makes it more exciting. your just 15 atm so let yourself grow a bit older and if you meet a woman then you can tell more from that/ but you said you get aroused from women so your either straight or bi sexual depends on how you feel about it do you see yourself with a man do you imagine living a life with one ? being sexually active with a man do you vision these things in real life and not on a tv ? msg me if you want to talk further good luck aphex xx
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