A
female
age
36-40,
*eeks
writes: There's this man that I really like who I've been with for a week but I don't know if he is true. He approached me online and said all these sweet nothings to me. He's 29 and is already trying to be in a serious relationship. I want to know how do I know when he is truly into me? I don't want to be some rebound chick. Please I need advice! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (16 May 2009):
Look for signs of affection and signs that hes thinking of you. Asking him will just get the standard answers which could be lies. You must be a psychological detective about this. How much of a connection do you have, how much of the relationship does he lead (calling, arranging dates...).
It is too early to tell anything for sure, give it time, watch to see if the relationship drops off a cliff (little communication, at least on his part) or whether its smooth sailing.
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