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*ippersnapper
writes:First of all, im a guy. i accidently pressed the female option on the form thing and now find that i cant change it.so i masturbate ALOT, and im horny all the time. i find it really difficult to find a girlfriend that satisfies me and time and time again it leads to problems. even after i have sex with a girl, i can go again straight away. i can go about 4 times in a row, and if im drunk i can go for about 2 hours. i even need to masturbate after sex sometimes. i even initiate sex in my sleep sometimes (which is a horrible thing to be told in the morning!)i ended up cheating on my ex-gf twice because of this problem, and i never want to do it again. do other guys/ girls have this problem? what can i do to make it stop screwing up my awesome current relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): I have a friend who is just like that. We had sex a few times he was cheating on his girlfriend with me .. Well that was before i knew he had one and then when i found out he did i stopped seeing him. and his girlfriend found text messages in his phone about us two and now hes regrettin and wants to stop but he doesnt know how to anybody awith answers to these questions?
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reader, wippersnapper +, writes (18 May 2009):
wippersnapper is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanx for your responses guys. i now realise theres probably heaps of people with this problem which in itself makes me feel better, even tho the problem isnt fixed.
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (16 May 2009):
What can I say, for some of us guys you are making us extremely jealous with talk of your own exploits. Most mens sex drive is out of control I myself masturbate almost daily and sometime more but that is through the fact I'm not currently in a relationship.However you are a young man and believe it or not you are outside your sexual prime (according to medical and sex experts). How much do you love your current girlfriend? Is she the most significant woman in your life? If this is not the case then you need to "sow your oats" and to my way of thinking and through what my female friends tell me (range from mid 30's to early 50's) some of them would like some of that sexual liberation. However if you wish to continue with your relationship you have to remain true and totally monogamous not only to your girlfriend but yourself. Talk to your girlfriend about her sex drive, see if you have similarities, vary things, it's not always about you cumming!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I had a great relationship recently that ended because of a similar problem. I wanted to have sex all the time, and even when i did, i wanted to do it over and over again. When i explained this to my boyfriend (at the time), he tried to help, but just got frustrated when he couldn't- so the relationship ended. I think for the time being, i just need to search for that guy that can keep up with my needs. I think the same applies to you :)good luck
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reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (16 May 2009):
 to answer your qestion about does this happen to other guys well you sound like my bf , he too would go like 4 times in a row and more if he has been drinking , literally he would be on for hours , that i actually thought that was the norm , i dont really have any advice to you just wanted to tell you you're not the only one
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