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writes:this is a serious question, its a bit crazy. i know you guus arent doctors or anything, i just want some advice so i dont feel so alone on this issue, i dont have insurance either, so if it is serious i cant really do anything about it. i am a healthy 20 year old and whenever i have sex w/my husband i get overheated and suffer awful cramps after sex, some as bad as were they cripple me w/pain they have even hurt so bad i have thrown up from them. it even happens when i masturbate, i have to go as far as puting a heating pad under my uterus and lay on my side. but sometimes i dont even feel anything. i climax everytime we have sex and everytime i masturbate. sometimes im even scared to have sex or anytime type of orgasim. im nervous. is this there anything wrong? again i know your not drs. but i need some advive to know im not a freak. sry for it being so long. and thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (19 May 2009):
Even if you may not be able to afford any treatment that is possibly needed, dont you think it would be best to see the doctor, so you know what is going on? It could turn out to be nothing serious, atleast that way you will be able to relax. If you dont see a doctor then you will be contiually worrying.
I dont know about the U.S. but in Australia we have doctors which 'bulk bill', where you dont have to pay to go see them? Are you sure you dont have something similar in the US?
What about borrying some money from a family member for your doctors checkup? Im sure if they knew that there could seriously be something wrong they would help you out if they could.
You should def get it checked out, I mean the treatment could be really cheap for all you know. But if you leave it for longer, it could get worst, whatever it is. So see a doctor as soon as you can. That way you can have peace of mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys. happytochat: i am happy to be in a sexual relationship, as it is my husband. i have hpv and have pre cancerous cells removed. and the dr said everything is fine. most places aroun here will not take anybody in w/out insurance. i really dont know what to do, if its serious, i mean if the dr were to find anything i wouldnt be able to do anything or afford surgery. were already in the middle of bankruptcy and were considered legally poor.
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reader, happytochat +, writes (16 May 2009):
I had pretty much the same problem a while ago. For me, it was a psychological problem. I was having sex but didnt really want to for numerous reasons. I was also so scared of geting pregnant. So it all came down to fear and anxiety for me. Are you truly happy to be having a sexual relationship? Have you had any bad sexual experiences in the pass? are you happy in your relationship?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (16 May 2009):
 There is defo something wrong here, you need to go and see a doctor, you could have an ovarian cyst as this is one of the symptoms. But I'm not a doctor, go and see one! X
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