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writes:Hi i need a little help, and i dont know whats going on. I'm very confused about my sexuality. Am i straight/bi/gay? idk. lately ive just been wanting to have sex more and more and and i dont know whats happening. my problem is that im very attracterd to girls, but i think i may be attracted to guys too.does that make me gay/bi? is this just a phase or something? i dont know.and ive been having some really crazy dreams also lately, and im just really confused. has this happend to anyone else? can anyone help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): uh, it might be a phase or u may be bi either way it's cool they're nothing wrong with being bi. I don't think u can get over it. It's a healthy thing to know that it's okay to be whatever sexualitly u are.
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Good luck and Stay safe.
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reader, Chay  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Hey, dont worry its a phase we all go through( not just teenagers) i am a lesbian, and i had alot of trouble coming to terms with it. But more so when i was your age, i kept having dreams about girls in my class, and what it would it be like to kiss them. And its normal for you to have these crazy dreams. But it is a fact that teens go through this, it could be a stage but it also might not be. Why dont you try talking to a homosexual person? or go to a LGBT youth group in your community, to see what there opinions are,and to figure out if it is just a stage.Another concern for teens is that if someone found out that would they be bullied? well as cruel as kids are, its less likely for you to be bullied, this generation is very easy going about the subject. In fact its got to a point were it is so normal and expected its become a trend! which is a tad insulting, for someone like me, and someone like you who is confused about your sexuality. Dont worry to much you will not be the only kid thinking these thoughts. The nerd in ur class, the sporty guys, even your mates probably. Hope i helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): How old are you?
Everyone goes through phases of thinking they are bisexual, gay etc. But it normally passes. I have felt this though I am bisexual, many of my friends have also been through this phase too.
Dont worry about it just see if it passes. x
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