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writes:Im 14 years old and I konw this boy since 2nd grade we have been thru hell and back!!but its been amost 1 year and im in total love with him but I think he feels the same way for me but since im not sure I don't want to get my hopes up!!!but lately we have been talking a lot about sex...everyday...so we came up with just have ing phone sex u know just for fun!!!but then he started to say weird stuff that kinda gets mi horny!!!! So we have been think bout have sex but we aways back out I guess were just not ready but he says he at least wants to move up 1 step by touch our selfs I said yea but im not sure if I did the right thing!!!what do you think????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Don't do it. It is usually painful the first time. And this is even if you have been playing with yourself, using a dildo, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Im sixteen, so theres not much of an age gap between us. HOenslty, i dont think you should go ahead with it. At this age, the demands of guys and girls are really different. Girls jus wanna hang around and have fun, but guys want to make out and have sex. I dont want you to get hurt later on cos its still too early to know what he really thinks about you- whether he really really loves you or not. So why risk it? and you have the rest of your life to enjoy urself in this way- i think its best to wait till your a bit older, and = besides, girls arent biologically ready to have sex at such an age.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 You should just let it happen naturally hun, your still young got yrs ahead of you to have sex yet lol i care for my 2 teen sisters and im forever picking up the pieces after ive advised them not t do something then they go ahead anyway! So i doubt you'll be much different because ultimately its YOUR choice what you do. But it defo sounds like your not ready for this sort of thing yet tho. I lost my V at 14, it was to my best friend who id grown up with, we was the closest ppl you could ever meet and decided that we would rather loose it to someone we knew and trusted than someone that mite just use us, but things got weird, and we drifted apart afterwards, do i regret it? Yes i do! We both lost good friends. However i think had we been older at the time perhaps we could have delt with it alot better. Hope this has been of some use to you hun.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 I think it is the curiosity of what is sex and fear of knowing it.
You might have seen many cases of premarital sex, and also what had been their results.
You might end up one of the statistics.
I think it's to early for you to take up sex.
Try something else that could kill the feeling of wanting to have sex. As I have said love is not all about sex.
If he will not agree to wait for the right time, then think of it.
Sex is all he is after on you. Meaning, his emotion is not enough as yours and more, he is not the right one for you.
OK! I hope that clear things out.
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