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writes:I know there are many, many flat chested women in the world who are living life happily. However, I'm not one of them. I'm single, and it just seems so unfair that despite having a nice face/hair, taking care of my appearance, and dressing up well, guys just flock to curvier women, who sometimes are uglier than me (facewise). Curvier women, from my experience, don't have to make as much effort (ie. chat guys up), in order to get dates... guys don't come to me, so I have to go to them, and most of them check out busty women anyway, when we date.It sucks. I know I sound like a whining girl who just needs to get over herself, but it's true. I don't like being with someone when I feel they're settling for me (because I've never met a guy who genuinely PREFERS small, or in my case, flat boobs). Then again, I wouldn't get surgery either. I just wouldn't.I always hear big chested women complain about creepy attention, back aches and all. But I would take all that, if only to look more womanly and not feel like guys are settling for me! Nothing worse than being in the middle of a date, and the guy just stares at some girl who happened to have large breasts. Or watching a movie and seeing his eyes light up when a busty girl is on. Or when you're having sex and they pay ZERO attention to the chest. And the odd joke about it. Not to mention porn collections, Playboy, ads... IT HURTS!Let's face it no man likes flat chests... it's not like I'm small chested, I'm truly, truly flat, flatter than some guys actually. They all want at least a B cup, hah, I wish I was a B cup... I don't even need a bra, it's ridiculous. I'm just nipples and that's it.What the hell can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): i too am an A cup and have always felt very insecure about it. Ive thought about getting implants but watched it get done on tv and its put me off. Yes most men love boobs, but some men love legs and butts etc.... If a guy wont be with you for your breast size then hes not worth it. Flaunt the parts u do like about yourself. And at least when youre older you wont have boobs hanging over your stomach. Get implants if you want, but only do it for yourself. :)
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reader, holmar +, writes (19 July 2009):
Also, I like to run and I don't want those damn things bobbing up and down like an apple in a bucket on Halloween.
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reader, holmar +, writes (19 July 2009):
oh my gosh. I am a 1/2 A. Do you know how embarrassing it is to have to go to the little girls section at target because they don't carry your size in womens, and not even the smallest cup fits? The only reason I have anything is becaue I had children..wow, so I got nipples! But, I will tell you something. You, like me, are probably small and thin. Otherwise we would have a little more up top. Also, I am 36 years old. I have never been with a man who didn't like them. They have always liked them. There ARE a lot of men who like small breasted women. It's a personal preference. You can get a breast job if you want too, but right now, most women are getting them, so then you are going to be more attractive, because you will be the minority and thus harder to find and more valuable. There is also something to be said for natural. I have heard that a lot of the fake ones feel like well, fake. Someone told me once it was "like having two torpedoes poking him in his back". Plus, your boobs won't sag as much, or at all, and when your buried and you die and someone accidentally digs you up, they won't find a pile of bones and two big bags of silicone. Its up to you what you decide to do, and the silicone part was just a joke, but seriously, a lot of men do prefer small breasted women and don't like the feel of implants. Hopefully some men will answer this so you feel better and it's coming from a man. But, your not alone. I like mine.
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reader, Mugzie69 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Nips are dynamite. Now must say that you popped one out, moistened a finger and toyed with it a bit--do you really think he'd look away? I could be wrong, but I seriously doubt it...
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reader, ugh101 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Please do not wish for big boobs. When you do have them on a small figure the guys all just want you for them and not for you. And its so much funn not being able to get that shirt cause it is made for the flat chested girls.
i have personaly lost a lot of weight. And my boobs are the same size and i would rather have a regular cup size thn to have guys see me as just something to play with.
hope that helps you see the cons
Best of LuckXX
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reader, DLover  +, writes (19 July 2009):
Hey some guys don't want "big boobs" !
Personnaly, proportion matters more than size, and her face, especialy her smile and the look in her eyes matters more to me ! I falled in love with a girl, and other guys said she was "boobless", but to me she was just perfect: she was gorgeous, warm smile, bright look in her eyes and she was very smart too !
Too big is ugly too me.
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reader, wherestheinstructions?  +, writes (19 July 2009):
Well in the absence of a picture, I can't comment on you specifically, but I can say that there are guys (including me) that do like your body type.
You're comparing your body to the faked, unnatural and highly marketed idea of the 'ideal' body seen on TV, magazines and advertising.
In real life, real women have real bodies in all shapes and sizes, and real men understand and appreciate those women for who they are.
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 You can't do anything to make your breasts larger, aside from plastic surgery. I've met guys who prefer small boobs (seriously, they're out there). It's just a matter of finding the right person for you, because there is one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): I think we all have different physical flaws. I am not flat chested, but I am short and have scars on my legs, therefore I always need socks or stockings in the summer. My point is that we all comes with flaws, and perhaps it helps to imagine god asking you, what would you trade AWAY to have bigger breast? would you like to have short legs, acne skin or uglier face? The fact of life is that non of us are born perfect sans the fortunate few, and in the end life is about learning to appreciate what we do have. the guy you will end up with has no right to demand that you are perfect physically, if you are you would be dating brad pitt or someone else who is more physically appealing than he is.
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