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writes:9 months before i was married, out of the blue my girlfiend sent a photo of her nipple to my phone, with a message that said are you ready to see the real thing? the message looked very much like a reply. I asked her what does this mean, and got into an awful argument and was left feeling very bad about the low opinion she said i had of her. After that she lost her mobile. Any argument we had, she never failed to throw up about the time i falsely accused her. I found this phone she had lost hidden behind the boiler, turned it on and it seems i was right. There are phone numbers and sends rude photos to guys. I dont know where she knows them from and never calls them by a name. I havent told her yet and i think fireworks will fly. Everybody thinks she`s an angel. My mother and her are like best mates. What am i to do? I cant understand who the people she sends them to are. I dont know how i can carry on knowing what her secret kick is. Where have i failed her? She never complains and always tells me she`s never been happier. Shall i just leave and not tell her what i know. I do know what my wife looks like. seems a lot of others do to. She never shows her face.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Sounds like your wife is living a double life. And P.S. you should talk to your Mother about it otherwise she'll only hear your wife's side of the story and women tend to stick together. It may be embarrassing but you need to have your own family on your side. Then I would confront her. Be prepared for fireworks. Liars never like getting caught.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Its difficult to imagine this,its kinda wierd. She knows what she is doing. The thought that she threw your "false allegation" up at you in argument makes my blood boil,and i dont even know you. It also shows a very deep sinister mind. I would think twice about staying in this. She probably doesnt know these men. It sounds very much adult contact adverts may be where they are from.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Tell her what u have found,then goodbye. I think she doesnt know these guys and either from contact ads or maybe chatrooms. She sounds very screwed up. I think maybe proffessinal help. She knows she has done wrong. Maybe she has a personality disorder. If you stay she wont stop without outside help. This must be very embarrassing. I think this spells single again.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 You never failed her. It seems she enjoys sending pictures of her nipples to men. Sounds like exhibitionism.
Check this article:
http://www.minddisorders.com/Del-Fi/Exhibitionism.html
There you will find this text: "Some women engage in a form of exhibitionism by undressing in front of windows as if they are encouraging someone to watch them" This is like it.
Or, she's simply asking guys to sleep with her?
If this bothers you, think carefully. Once I met a guy whose wife had this behavior and she simply never stopped. The husband liked it so there was no problem between them.
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