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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So i've been seeing this guy for 2 months already. I'm a little confused. Last night I ran into him at the bar and he always does this: He never comes up to me but he's always observing me and watching me, he'll pinch my butt, he'll call me and ask me when we're walking home, he even told one of his friends to tell me to come inside (but he won't do it!) when "our song" came on, and he also always introduces me to his friends. I don't know if it's his joking self or if I'm to blame since I would always pretend that I didn't know him when I would walk into the bar. (Just to be funny! And I hang out with my girlfriends, as he hangs out with his friends so I don't want to be rude and spend all night talking to him). So after all that, we walked home to his place, he offered me food, then we went upstairs (and thinking that we were going to have sex) he just fell asleep! We made out once that entire night, on our walk! He was really drunk. I left his place in the morning (he was still sleeping) and he texted me to come back. He also apologized if he was rude at any point. I don't know what this looks like, so I'm asking for an outside point of view. Sometimes I distance myself from guys that I really like (for example this one) and I'm not sure if that's why he's afraid to come up to me. Sometimes I feel like he's losing interest. (Background though: he does text often and all his friends know about me. We hang out once during the week and once during the weekends, usually. In the past, he texted me that he misses me. But in this past week, he stopped). What do you guys think?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 well you left him high and dry so he prob thinks something happened and its over. so just txt him and said you had things to do but thanks for the nice walk and so forth seem. interested and if your alone together and you like this guy then why not move it up a step. it shows good he ddnt have sex with you as that shows thats not all hes interested in. and if all his friends know about you i doubt he wants a one night stand. so you should contact him.. i see the whole bar thing as a long distance flirt your both not sure who should make the move but if you dont do something then im sure he wont. if you want this then move forward and make a step. if you dont try you will always wonder what if. hope that helps keep us update aphex xx
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