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writes:I was young 15.. never been in love and didn't plan on falling in love when I met this guy. We met, by his best friend and became a couple. In the beginning of the relationship, I wasn't all that into him. I ended up giving him a chance and falling head over heels for him. We had it all. There was love, passion, fun, everything! We've had our ups and down.. revenge.. lies.. but we managed to stick through it. Occassionaly we got in fights, that lasted less than a week. But now he seems to not love me how he used to. He used to always call, always use little cute text messages, always make me feel special. Now, he doesn't do any of that. He claims he loves me, I try to believe he loves me, I hope he loves me but I really don't know if he loves me.When I call him, he seems more annoyed than excited. HE IS TRYING TO KEEP ME HIS. Now he's not doing it for any "excitment or pleasure" because he can get that from any girl he wants, so I think he really loves me. I really love him and want to be with him, sometimes I try to play hard to get, sometimes I try to really act like I like him, IVE TRIED EVERYTHING.I don't want to let him because I really want to be with him and I'm pretty sure he wants to be with me but I don't understand what is going on.I know I am a girl and everything but how is it fair for him to always get to go out everywhere with his "boys" and I can barely go anywhere with my "girls" without being accused.By the way it's been 2 years now. We're all grow up.But what do you guys think? What happened? Help? ADVICE PLEASE
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, we have been together STILL. Two years later!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Im confused
By the way it's been 2 years now. We're all grow up.
But what do you guys think? What happened? Help? ADVICE PLEASE
So your no longer with this guy,?
any way love has its phases first it can be awkward then it heets up your making out all over the place so in love drooling and day dreaming talking on the phone for hours making love till the some comes up but even the sun has cycles and phases do you really think it would be healthy to keep up the first few phases of love throug out the whole relation ship basically your brain is be floded by power drugs i mean your on a natural high your an addict basically, whats your body starts getting used to that it starts wearing off your still in love but your more rational you start thinking about life all the important things you need to be doing and you do it this is the settling down phase its natural the problem is at 16 whoes ready to settle down. im gonna say he still loved you and cared for you but that initial obsession phase was over plus you where just kids he could have had a number of things going on in his life affecting him ultmitly affecting how he treated you ask your self this though if your parents are still married do you see hikies on there necks
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