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writes:I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We've onlly hung out three times and don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't know when he comes up. I can tell that he is a really nice guy but he doesn't call me that often and I don't know if that is because of his job or he doesn't want to see me. So I'm not sure if he is interested because they say that when a guy is really into a girl, he will do anything to get her and this guy is rather quiet about it. Does he not like me? I would ask him out myself but my relationships have been horrible when I made the first move and I dont want to be the man in the relationship anymore, hell I'm a girl haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Men and women aren't as different as people think. This guy may have also made the first move and got shot down, badly. Women are sometimes cruel when they reject men. I recommend you do what my wife did. Forget the roles of man and woman b.s Give him your number and leave it up to him. Most of all, don't show too much concern what his answer will be. This way you won't screw up your friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): I think we may be having the same experience ,, I met this girl 2 weeks ago and we flirted constantly ,, If this was ur case , i mean if you hit it off real good the first time you met, then the reaction of the dude is pretty much like mine , i only called her once or twice after we hung out 2 weeks ago, not because im busy or anything but just because i'm not thinking of this as a real serious relationship, kind of like friends with interest or smth, anyway if you plan on actually being in a relationship with this guy, then my advice to you ask him clearly where you stand in this relationship. If he answers you then good, if he tries to 'dodge' the question or not answer clearly or directly, then it's probably that he does not think of what you have as being a serious relationship, that's pretty much what I think is happening in the dude's head.
hope this was helpful;
Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): If a guy doesn't chase a girl, i think it means he respects himself too much to let himself look like a doggy fool running around chasing a girl. I think it means he's not desperate and he's accepting of what he thinks is his reality that maybe the girl just doesn't want him. I think it means he doesn't want to play what he finds to be childish games because he takes himself more seriously.
Or it could mean he's not into you enough.
~Sy.
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