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*Raa
writes:i have been friends with this person from school for 10 months now, but all he does is moan about my other friend not having feelings for him, he thinks its because he's "black, fat and ugly" but I cant help finding him annoying and seeking for attention- i've tried acting like i fancy him to make him feel beetter but he's not having it. whenever i see him i feel uncomfortable, i want to help him get over her, but how can i if all he does is feel sorry for himself?i just wanna do the right thing and make things right again. Reply to this Question
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reader, Rachel O +, writes (19 July 2009):
 dont pretend to fancy him, beacuse if you actually dont like him in that way and he ends up fancying you, your a bit stuck and will hurt his feelings more.why dont you do things together like take him swimming with you, cinema, sea side, shopping (if he doesnt mind it lol)try sitting down with him and tell him how your feeling about this situation and its making you feel uncomfortable around him, and like carriebaby says he has to face the facts that the girls doesnt like him in the way he does and there isnt anything he can do. tell him there is plenty more fish in the side. tell him he will find the right girl some day, he just needs to be patient.Take Care, hope i helped (:
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (19 July 2009):
 firstly - dont pretend to fancy him if you do not because thats wrong and will end up hurting him more.. hes obviously at the stage where self pity has sunken in. Sit him down and explain that you dont like seeing him upset but he has to face facts that this girl is just not into him. Tell him he will one day meet someone who will really care for him but hes got to pick himself up of the ground and move on..
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