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*ryingToFindHome
writes:Dear AllI would appreciate any advice you maybe abe to offer. I could really do with a second opinion please.I’d recommend you look over some background info about my situation:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-i-been-rejected-what-do-i-do.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-ask-her-to-the-prom.htmlBasically following my post in January, things stayed as they were. However she eventually got her first boyfriend in March, I think to be considered ‘cool’ under peer pressure from her friends, as she admitted to me that ‘it wouldn’t last’, confirming my belief. I was proven right when he came off the scene in April.A month before our Prom her friends were hinting asking would I go with her etc, in one small class Prom came up and our teacher asked who was going with who etc, her friends said ‘oh (me)is going with ‘her’. She looked embarrassed in a nice way, I asked her if I could have the pleasure of escorting her to it and she said she’d get back to me. She never did, but I heard some of her friends saying ‘go on, go with him etc’.On our last day she had a picture with me etc, but nothing happened. Come Prom night I left her alone with her friends and that was it. I thought oh well she obviously doesn’t love me, and I tried so hard to forget about her in a loving way, we talked about meeting up later this year but no plans were set.Now yesterday I was talking to her online and asked how she was etc, we had a nice chat, I told how I though she looked stunning on Prom night and how didn’t tell her/approach her because I wanted her to have a good night (which is true), she was flattered, we carried on talking and she said ‘hey why don’t you come to my party?’ so she’s invited me to her party tomorrow. She ended our chat with ‘see you soon, I look forward to it xxxx’I’m chuffed that I’ve been invited, but my question is do you think she’s invited me because she may have feelings for me? Is she playing hard to get?What I don’t get is she is really honest, upfront, says it as it is, but she has never said ‘let’s just be friends’, or ‘Sorry but I’m not interested’ etc.It’s a small ‘closed’ party with only her best friends and none of my other friends have been invited.If you do think that she’s invited me because she may like, have you got any recommendations for the night? I’d love to be with her so badly. I understand that it may not ‘meant to be’, but I love her so dearly. I’m just going to play it call and be myself. I’ve got her some chocolates and drinks etc.Oh well any advice would be really appreciated :) Thanks
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reader, TryingToFindHome +, writes (24 July 2009):
TryingToFindHome is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much everyone for your advice. The party went ok, here's a link to more about it, what happened and going forward etc.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-continue-my-chase-or-is-she.html
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reader, confusedme123 +, writes (19 July 2009):
Ok, she clearly likes you, as she wouldn't have invited you to the party in the first place. Put on your best clothes and be brave. She probably wants you to be more cheeky and not let her do the first move. So good luck. Try to find some common grounds with her, like same taste in food for example.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): hello, awww this all sounds sweet, every girl likes to play hard to get so they can see how desperate a guy is to have them, so i would say hunni you have a fair chance tht she wants you but it waiting for you to just come out with i like you, i think you should play cool like normal and wen you arrive to her party and give her, her presents hug her with a firm hold and just a peck on the cheek, show you admire her, and say you look gawjus tonite. give good compliments and you might just be a winner of her heart.
hope this helps you.
have fun at her party :D x
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