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Masturbating to an ex's picture?

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Question - (19 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2009)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

So I was going through some old photos and I found one of my ex gf that is pretty provocative. I ended up masturbating to her picture. It felt really good, but at the same time, I felt vaguely guilty.

My question is, how bad should I feel here? And does it mean I am not yet over her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

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Yes I realize its over. Or rather, there's nothing more I can do on my part to salvage the relationship, save go get a phd and get the nobel prize, or win the championship of something. That's what she wants, a world changer (in fact, she still hasn't come remotely close to settling down so yeah). N' I'm just a guy... She did have great sex appeal though, amongst other things..

and no, I wasn't crying. lol.

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A male reader, samson United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2009):

There is a term for this.

I came up with a little while ago.

Were u crying while masturbating over her?

If so its called CRANK.

CRYING + WANKING = CRANKING.

its all part of the healing phase!lol

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A male reader, quarky United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2009):

quarky agony auntHow bad should you feel? No one can tell you that!

Men and women fantasise often when masturbating. Whether it's a movie star or an ex perhaps there's no real difference - both are invariably unavailable.

So not odd or weird but remember to get rid of the pics if you find someone else!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (19 July 2009):

Danielepew agony auntMan, you just happened to remember how good sex with her was. Unless you have someone now, it's no big deal. I assume that the fact you two broke up, and are no longer together, is perfectly clear in your mind.

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