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*lfredo1400
writes:My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of bad stuff that happened to her and i didnt have the heart to end it. Infact for reasons which i cant explain to myself I fell in love with like I havent fallen for anybody else. The thing is ever since that day, which was about 4days after i met her she changes. shell give me sex but she doesnt act like a freak anymore. Now Ive moved away and were doing a long distance relationship, and its really bothering me. I get no dirty text messages, no nude pictures nothing. She actually gets mad wenever I even talk about sex. And its not because shes not freaky its becuz shes tryn to act like shes not. She always thinks about dirty things and then tries to change the subject. why does she do this. I got my needs.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 "She told me a bunch of bad stuff that happened to her and I didn't have the heart to end it." Do you want to be with her because you love her, or because you feel sorry for her?I kind of sensed that she had a bad past, as in bad things happened to her. She's testing you. She was used in her past sexually by many men, and now she is trying to see if you are using her, and you are failing miserably, because you keep thinking about what she can do for you.Plus I wouldn't want to have sex with a man that called me a bitch either.She's a strong woman since she is still thriving despite her past, so I'm sure she'll live if you are not in her life.
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reader, Alfredo1400 +, writes (19 July 2009):
Alfredo1400 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIve been with her for 6 months
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Seems like she fell for you too and wanted to be herself around you, maybe being freeky is what she shows to people she doesn't know it's a bit like protecting yourself by keeping your distance.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Hi Hun
You said your g/f was freaky by that I take it you mean unusual in the way she behaved?
If really bad things happened to her, Then this can account as to why she appeared and may have been so easy as you put it..
If someone has only been shown love in one way and that way being sex then this is the only way they will know how to go about recieving love and giving love...
The fact that she has frozen out all sexual behaviour maybe because she has told you. She wants you to understand why she was like this in the first place...
If you love her as you say you do then rather than expect things of a sexual nature maybe talking with her about certain things that have upset her showing an understanding may help her to trust....
She must have lost alot of trust along the way love and this is all she needs to see...Im sure she doesnt like the though of being called a slut, And also being called easy, Both these things can and will upset anyone and if anyone has been hurt in a sexual way then its going to affect them worse when it comes to sexual matters. She may have been fine with it at first but I bet she also would like to be treated not just as a sexual being but a human being after what she has been through..I think a little bit of understanding is needed here...Hope this helps TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XX
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (19 July 2009):
you've grown apart, your young, it happens.
You're only obligation is to leave her in a better state than you found her (the old "campsite" rule). Dating at your age is to get life experienc- it worked, time for you two to grow - that will take moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): why dont you stop thinking about your needs and think about hers. Four days after she met you she told bad stuff that happened to her so she must really like you and maybe does not wont to be known as a slut, easy and freaky anymore. People change you have to decide weather you do actually love her now the way she wonts to be.
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