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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: my boy freind of 5 years stoped sleeping in bed with me he is always makeing excuses of why he wont then i tell him stop making excuses and am told the he just dosnt want to he wont tell me why and i cant sleep with out him it realy hurts i know im being pushed away but i cant find out why this has went on for 5 monthes know and im terribly upset about it Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (19 July 2009):
Let him go. It's up to him to be honest with you. And at this time he seems like he can't.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (19 July 2009):
move on - this is not a sexual issue, he's not communicating with you. You can't be in a realationship without communication.
Get out before you get married and have kids. Find someone who want to share his life. 5 years may seem like a long amount of time to "throw away", but he's tossted it in, and sticking around and making it 8 years wouldn't make it better...
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