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writes:my name is adrianna and i have this boyfriend and sometimes i wonder if he wants me for love or lust.i want him to want me as his girlfriend but sometimes i feel like he justs wants me for sex, but other times i feel like he wants me. i don't know which one to believe. sometimes when i go to his house, we go straight up to his room and we already start deep kissing and touching and it's barely been 5 minutes.everytime i go to his house, we usually make love and we sometimes talk, but i'm wondering should i break up with him because he's only after my body, or should i stay with him because he likes me for me. please help me, i don't know what to do the next time i see him, i'm in need of help !!!!!!!! HELP !!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Hmm are you happy with this guy, hes a man hes gonna want sex. If you want more out of the relationship let him know, it doesnt sound like your really into this guy if your ready to break up with him over this and havnt even spoke with him yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): Find other things to do sweetie. He might be bored, so his mind goes there, even though he most likely loves you. Me and my husband live in hick towns and there is barely ne thing to do there, especially if you are poor. Look up cheap things yall can do that don't involve sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): He obviously fancies the pants off you, but it's difficult to tell how he feels re: love-v-lust. With any luck it's both - ie, he wants your body and your mind.
The only thing I can think of is to cut out the sex and shenanigans for a while and see how he reacts. If he only wants you for sex he probably won't hang around for too long. Deprived of it, he may even tell you he loves you to soften you up a bit.
Have the two of you got any other interests that you share or is it just the one thing?
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