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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Why is it that men will call you at first every day and then miss a day and you don't hear from them? Are they just busy or does that mean they aren't that into you? Should I call or send a text? What is the best thing to do to keep their interest?
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reader, ecstasy  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 no matter what always let them chase you,not otherwise..... till they have the chase they re into you! how you do it depends on the guy and your creativity!
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 This is men for you. They don't think like us at all. A couple of days will go by and we are worrying about why we haven't heard from them but it won't even have crossed their mind. When this kind of thing happens to me I accept that they are different and bow out for a couple of days. I decide that i am going to do something for me, basically anything that takes my mind off 'why haven't they rung, texted etc'.
I think it is a mistake to text or call yourself as this could be seen as being desperate and needy which are obviously huge turn offs to men. Never chase them as they don't like it and they want to be the one doing the chasing. Don't send anything and when you do hear from him just be cool ad calm and don't launch into the why haven't I heard from you rountine. A couple of days and even up to a week is ansolutely nothing to worry about.
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reader, crazy_in_luv +, writes (14 January 2009):
there re 2 ways to go abt it depending upon the guy's nature,u know..like,
if he is a direct guy,then u should be direct with him.that is,if u wanna call him,call..or text him if u wanna do that..
if he is in for games..well play along...give him a dose of his own medicine...and dont text or call him...if he is interested he will call sometime...or not..either ways u will know how it is..
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