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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello everyone! I've been best friends with this guy for a little over a year now and the moment I saw him, I knew he was the one. We started talking in class and then eventually online and the phone. Then we started hanging out more and more. It was like I was the only one that mattered to him and he was the only one that mattered to me. Everyone thought that we were a couple.. and it was like we were dating without being official. Then recently, this really outgoing girl (not to say that I'm shy) asked him out and he was stunned. I was too. He told me that he would never go out with her. What a hypocrite. He said yes without even telling me. I had to find out from someone else and worse.. facebook! I don't understand how this could happen. Now he won't even acknowledge my existence. It's like I'm invisible and I don't know what I did wrong. Everytime he sees me in the hall he still acts into me. I really need him to make up his mind and go after what he wants. I'm so very confused. What should i do?!! :(
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reader, superman- +, writes (14 January 2009):
maybe he is just into you both so you need to tell him to make his mind up to be honest. He can't care that much if he lied to you about going out with her and worse you had to find out from facebook so I would suggest just send him a text or something explaining how you feel and if he isn't in to you any more he should just be honest about it so you can both get on with your lives. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): Maybe he just wants you both and you should just ask him to tell you the truth about what he wants beacuse he can't care that much if he lied and you had to find out from face book .hope this helps
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