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writes:Hi guyz,my case is, i have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, i loved ths guy alot but he things are sometimes not good between us,he lied to me about somethings but i stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. we leave in diferent towns but see each other every week,except for the last two months.i call more often then him cause am working and he is not.he travelled to angola for a holiday cause thats where he is from,i knew he was leaving that day but he never called to say good bye,i called him and he said he didn see a need caux i knew already that he is leaving and that was almost two weeks ago and he asked me to wait for him and that he love.but he never called ever since.than i met a guy at work (my client)from his country , and this guy is falling for me, i dont wanna dump my boy friend but i think i am falling in love with the guy imet at work,every timei bump into him there is just a certain feeling that i never felt before. he told me he love me, and i told i am occupied but he said for me he is wiiling to wait for life if tha is a case cause he know am a woman of his life,he told me the first time he met me, that was last year april and how hard was it for him to get hold of him.and he said he know for sure that i feel something for him also but he think its just not the right time may be.but he is willing to wait.and the other thing is this guy looks like my big brother alot in the face and the manners.is this the reason why i love this guy. can i go for him. am confused.PAWA
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): the guy i met is not my colleaque, but my client he comr down to namibia every second month.i also think otherwise when i think of having a relationship with my clientand i told him that, but what i feel for him is so special that no man made me feel the way he do.i know its stupit but i will not jump to any conclussion untill i sort out my feelings cauz it might be just infatuation.the original poster of the question.
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reader, Sisyphus  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 Hi Pawa,
If you were really in love with your current boyfriend would you be thinking about leaving him? From what you've said you seem dissatisified with the contribution he is making to the current relationship. You really need to examine the relationship you have with your current boyfriend and see if it is likely to go anywhere in the future.
As for the other guy, the one from work I would be cautious. Work and relationships sometimes turn out OK, but not every time. Do you know much about this new guy? He could simply be a smooth talker. If things end with the new guy from work will it make your working life more difficult?
Either way you choose I wish you all the best Pawa
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