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writes:What am I doing wrong.....?How many times did you get your heart broken before you found the right guy your with? I've been hurt by 4 guys now and dont think I can take it any more.. I am a nice girl.. am not clingy or needy.. I give guys their space and am very caring..!! but all the guys I've been with all turns out to hurt me in the end.. what am I doing wrong? GIRLS.. you can tell me your stories aswell as this will make me feel that am not alone.. thanks..x Reply to this Question
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (15 January 2009):
Yes, you'll find him (or finally notice him).
There's just one thing you're doing wrong: the type of guys you chose, i bet there are a couple of guys crazy for you, wich you don't know about because they might be "not your type". Love comes, always do, but don't expect it with any precise form.
You're too young don't worry about it, let it flow.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Yes you will find love, but as "Steve S" suggested, it may simply find you. You are way too young to worry about it, be concerned about it or let it get you down. Just keep being a nice, sweet young woman and it will happen. Best wishes.
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo +, writes (15 January 2009):
 You're choosing the wrong guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): youre doing nothing wrong. everyone is different, some people find love in their first relationship, others have much heartache and experience before finding "the one"
i can relate to how you feel, im 19 and have been in 3 serious relationships before now, my first being the longest and most important, but we wer just to young to make it work, the second was amazing, but i came to realise we wer better off as friends (and we're still really close now) and the third cheated on me and hurt me more than ive ever been hurt. right now im in a 6month relationship with i guy that i love and trust with all my heart, we are very close and things are going well, but with my experience i have learnt not to get too caught up with things, i dont want to get hurt again and i just take each day as it comes.
you are not alone, just look at everything in a positive way if you can, experiencing different relationships makes you grow, it makes you wiser and stronger, although it hurts when rlationships end, your "mr right" is out there somewer...
wow, long reply, hope it helps in someway.
best of luck, enjoy the experience :)
beth x
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