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writes:Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama.I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlemanly guy who can act with the proper respect. and my friend does that. but what kills me is we live almost an entire state apart now, and rarely ever get to see each other. and the other day he asked me out. and i could here the hope in his voice. so i said yes not for my sake but for his. and now almost a week later i find out another guy i had been crushing on seems to like me. and he does fit the standard and more! i have no idea what to do.. help please...
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Just got your reply and I am proud of you! Nothing is done better than that which is thought out carefully and planned. You have the right idea. *-)
You are so welcome for anything I said that helped. I am glad I could.
MY BEST TO YOU ALWAYS!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (17 January 2009):
LilzDon'tKnow is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much for helpin me and your right, there is no rush. :) and so far everything is cool. We talk, we laugh. and i help them with homework alot lol. but overall its as iff life moves on, im happy when im single for now lol makes life less dramatic. Thank you, and god bless!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (16 January 2009):
It's really a matter as wheter you are willing to be in a long distance, long termed relationship. At your age I think it would be best to remain friends with your first guy. Let the other one be a friend for now. Don't rush into any decision about who you should or shouldn't date.
The first guys seems like your choice yet the confusion is the other one is also a contender because you feel he is a great guy also. In time you will have more knowledge about both of the young men. Be kind to both and honest with both. Set your sights on becomming a serious girlfriend only when you see that either of the guys can really be there for you in the best ways possible. Since they both treat you well this is a good step in evaluation. You don't have to decide now, you can take time to get to know the second guy better. The first one already is pretty well known but being afar sometimes changes thingd.
Find things you can do to stay busy. Try focusing for a bit on other important things. Hang out with friends and keep your options open. When given a little time to think and staying friends with both can give you a little better edge on having the boyfriend you want. They will both be seeking your attentions most likely and when you do decide be fair and at least pretty sure before you select either one. Let their good deeds speak for themselves. Take your time and I am sure they will help you in deciding as they are certain to persue you until one of them wins!
Just a note. It is quite a bit harder to continue a great relationship from a long distance, However it's not impossible. Newer relationships often take more time and effort. Some relationshops on the other hand come evolve quickly and with less effort. The choice in the end will be up to you. Don't rush a decision, it could turn out to be one that you will forever regret.
ASK THAT GOD LEADS YOU TO THE PATH YOU SHOULD TAKE AND HELP YOU TO KNOW WHEN IT'S THE RIGHT TIME. HE IN HIS INFINATE WISDOM HELP YOU TO KNOW WHICH ONE TO CHOOSE. PRAY!!
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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