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I asked my b/f for naked photo, he sent and now wants one from me

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Question - (14 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i asked my boyfriend for a picture of him naked, but i didnt think he would do it, yet he sent it to me!!! and when i saw it, i felt like i had a porn star boyfriend, lol. and he told me he would want a pic of me naked, but i wasnt likeing the idea, he he told me not to worry about it, but i hate it that he has that thought in the back of his head.

so should i give him is picture?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009):

Wow... a guy wants to see his Girlfriend naked, shocker.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009):

No. You should not!! What the hell is chicanababe thinking? I don't know? Images sent over the internet can last for a very long time - much longer than you would expect. people never think about it at the time, and then later they regret the decisions that didn't seem so stupid at the time, but in retrospect ... what were they thinking??

Look, surely there are other things you guys can do. i mean, you're 13-15, so i don't even know what's legal in your state, and you shouldn't be getting pregnant, but sending pics of yourself over the internet would be a really bad idea. that reason you're hesitating -- that's your good sense that's causing you to pause. listen to it. think of it this way - if i'm completely wrong, then a year from now, when you guys are still so in love and wanting to get married, you can take a picture and show it to him (without sending it over the internet). even if your bf is not the kind of guy who would ever do anything with your pic (and it's hard to know how someone may act when they're really hurt, and you never totally know how hurt they may some day be by you), but even if that's true, materials transmitted over the internet can be intercepted. materials stored on a computer hard drive can be recovered when the computer is sold or trashed. people get their identity stolen that way all the time. and naked pics of you could end up on the internet 5 yrs from now, through no bad intention of your bf or anyone you know - just the random guy who found them on the hard drive he recovered.

Ignore chicanababe, who is daft. DON'T send the pics.

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A female reader, chicanababygul09 United States +, writes (14 January 2009):

well if you trust your boyfriend, and have been with him for a long time. Id say yes. because i took picture in lingerea (sorry if i spelt it wrong). and he loved them so i say you should. but becarefull cause you dont want him to take the pictures and show every one.

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