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How do I stop being nervous around guys?

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Question - (14 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the guy told to me relax and i couild,t,because i have no experecnce with guys like that before.

i never a boyfreind and even kissed a guy i am afraid too.i,d run mile from it.

should i always say yes when a guy offers me a drink in a pub or nighclub.

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A male reader, Sisyphus Australia +, writes (14 January 2009):

Sisyphus agony auntI'm not sure how you should become less nervous around guys. I'm less nervous now than I used to be, there are only two kinds of guys that make me nervous now: Creeps and guys I'm interested in (and the creeps are FAR more common).

As for accepting a drink, I wouldn't for fear of drink spiking. If you do accept a drink from a guy remember that you are sending him a 'yes I am interested in you' signal.

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