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male
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36-40,
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writes:we have been dating for the last one year. this relationship has had its own valleys and hills. the girl is a secondary school dame and i an in my final year in college. sometimes back, i had been posted to a town far away and our meeting was lessened. on one occasion a lass at my new location who wanted to have me called my girl and talked to her nasty things which made her go mad with me. she accused me of infidelity and decided to leave me. i tried to speak truth to her but she could hear none and so i gave her time to cool down and true, she later apologized. now i am too committed with this journalism course i an doing such that she thinks i am leaving her or using it as an excuse yet i give her all attention she needs when i am free. i love this girl with all my heart. how can i convince her that its only for a short time and we shall be together all through?
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reader, ecstasy  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 talk to her... tell her you are at a crucial stage of your life if you screw up now.... your life wont be as you want it to be that eventually includes being with her.....! but you need to make something of yourself before you can completely be with her..... if shes smart enough she will understand... stay calm with her... shes young might misunderstand what you say so choose your words wisely.... she needs to trust you.... you cannot have any relationship without trust.... this age girls need the usual mushy attention from guys.... make sure you re there for her while she wants to do the usual stuff like movies malls etc... or she might find herself getting uninterested in you.... you need to balance your time dude if you really love this girl!!!
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