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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: So I feel really dumb writing this but here goes, I used to have this massive teacher crush. I actually think I loved him, and we had this unspoken bond. My friends used to tell me that they saw him staring at me. We couldn't even say each others name, too weird. Although I may have wanted to neither one of us ever acted on our feelings. I would never ever want him to get in trouble, and I wouldn't even be able to look at myself if I ever did anything to hurt him. Anyways, in two weeks I am going back to my former school as an intern to be a teacher. My question is if I happen to see him there should I say anything to him?, and what if I'm his intern?, how should I act? I'm pretty sure I still have feelings for him. Any advice on my dilemma would be greatly appreciated.Thanks
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reader, wishfulxalways +, writes (14 January 2009):
Wow! I know how you feel. Most people would think that things like this are ridiculous, but I think that they fail to realize you can't help who you fall in love with. You did the right thing by not saying anything when you were in his class. Now that you're older, I think you should actually say something. Maybe he would admit to his feelings! Whatever you do, never give up on someone you love :)
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