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writes:my boyfriend and i weren't together for long, but i cared for him deeply.i was naive to the fact that he had played girls before, and he said the sweetest things.i noticed a couple of days after we began dating that he was becoming uncomfortable around me. he said he didnt want to kiss me or anything at school, because he didnt want people to be mad.of course, i was worried and asked him about this, not directly.he broke up me through a text message the next day, and i cried for two days.i realize that i shouldnt have began caring so much or so quickly, but im the type of girl that falls quickly.well, the next day he began texting me, attempting to explain why he did it. he says he still loves me, but needs time and is not over his ex girlfriend. he says he doesnt want to make me a rebound.doesnt the way he did make me a rebound?i still care aobut him, but i know i need to move on. i have to see him everyday, so its harder to distance myself from him.please help!xoxo, teenageheartbreak.
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reader, helpme246 +, writes (15 January 2009):
You know, you sound a lot like my ex, though she didn't break up w/ me through text, it was just a phone call. We were living very close to each other, and I only missed 1 date. I still love her more than all the universe combined, but she just won't tell me straightforward why she dumped me. Anyway, my advice is this, just find someone else. If he wasn't man enough to talk to you in person about the breakup, he wasn't good enough for you anyway.You deserve more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): just take it as a life lesson…you're young…you have a ton of relationships and life experiences ahead of you…i know now that it may seem like your world is crumbling around you, but trust me…when you look back on past relationships…don't regret any of them…the good or the bad…everything in life that we experience gives us a chance to learn and grow…if you want this boy back…play hard to get…chances are, it will work…people always want what they can't have…don't text or call him…he probably thinks he is so great and cool b/c he can get girls…by not paying attention to him, you're letting him know that he isn't "all that"…you have better things to do, places to go, and people to see…in the meantime, find something else to keep you occupied…focus more on school/friends/family…maybe start a new hobby or read a book that you might not normally read…immerse yourself in something that is not necessarily romantically related…it's hard to be sad, when you're keeping busy…don't go looking for love b/c chances are when you least expect it, love will find you :)
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reader, SpiralStairs  +, writes (14 January 2009):
hi, im a guy, but i recently had somewhat the same problem. to be honest, right after every break up, everything seems hard. but trust me, as time goes on it will get easier. just keep on hoping for the best. and life doesnt always work out the way you want it to. But, if the relationship fails, think of it as something that wasn't meant to be. and move on. I still see my ex-gf everyday, at the beginning, it is hard to forget. but you will in the end. so stay positive. and hope for better in the future. hope that helps.
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