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writes:I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm definitely not letting it interfere with my studies, though - in fact, my classes are what's keeping me sane right now - but he cheated on me. With a girl he's not even dating officially, yet. Although I'm happy they're not dating yet, it still kills me to know that she now has what I used to have.The real issue with all this, though, is that I recently (two days ago) met a guy in my CNA class... and today I just found it he has a girlfriend. Is it going to be like this for a while? I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible so I don't miss out on all the good guys and I don't end up feeling this way. I mean, I constantly check my phone for messages from my ex, I try not to think about him all the time but sometimes, it happens...and I cry...and I just want to know if there's anything besides friends and time that can help with this damn healing process.I literally feel very alone right now. Help...
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reader, rasher3  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 hi ya ,your young you have your whole life a head of you ,life is too short, get out, let your hair down ,he was nt the one for you, there is plenty of fish in the sea,get fishing
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (14 January 2009):
the other way to get over an ex is to love someone new
start dating and meeting guys, but take your time don't rush into relationships
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reader, carrie212 +, writes (14 January 2009):
 the SAME exact thing happened to me a year ago. I was with my ex for 2 years.. and he cheated on me. he's actually been dating the girl since him and I broke up so I know how hard it can be. my advice to you is not to jump into any relationships right away.. you need to take time for yourself right now. focusing on school is a good idea.. but go out with your friends and have fun. I thought about my ex for months after we broke up. (not to discourage you lol) but its the truth. the only real thing that will help you get over him is time. you're probably going to be thinking about him for a while.. im not going to lie.. but honestly the time it takes to get over an ex does vary. it may take another month, maybe longer.. maybe shorter. but trust me, the day you wake up and know that you are over him will be the best feeling in the world. just try to be patient.
and don't forget to enjoy your life! don't sit and sulk like I did for 2 months. you don't want to miss anything.
kay best of luck!
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