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female
age
36-40,
*iomaria
writes:Hello everyone, I have a big problem; I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I got pregnant only 3months after we met. At first things were fine but soon they started to change, he is only a few years older then me (26yrs old) but he acts like a kid. I have been studying thought my pregnancy and now I’m at university, as I put my son in nursery, he spends all his free time with his friends and makes a big deal about me asking him to help out with his son. My family hates him, and my mum things that I should leave him as he doesn’t do anything for me. I spent the first few years of the relationship crying because I couldn’t see my life without him, now I just feel sorry for our son. I never wanted to be in a relationship like this and I never wanted to be a single mother, what I should do. I should mention that he has a lot of personal issues and problems and I have tried to be supportive by not asking him anything about what he does and what his doing as he doesn’t like me asking, and do everything for our son, now I think that he has taken advantage of that. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): Angel my heart goes out to you, it really does, but you will feel so much more sorry for your child once he grows up and has to see his parents in a loveless relationship, sometimes people will say we only staying together for the kids, and that wont be right, you get sperm donors and you get fathers, you sound like such a bright and strong woman, and yes I do think he is taking advantage, being a parent must be the greatest gift ever, and I am sure even as a single mother you will do fine, trust in yourself and don’t let a man degrade you like this you are a woman and deserve better and your son he deserves a father not an donor
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